World events, a psychological view – Page 77

Sgt. Dakota Meyer, Medal of Honor winner, saved 3 dozen fellow marines and the remains of 4 fallen comrades. At the time he defied orders, he was a 21-year-old corporal. He was told to Not take action! He defied orders and did what HE knew was right.

How old are our congressmen and how many advanced degrees do they have? How much more rhetoric can we take from the god-is-on-my-side gang versus the god-is-a-falacy gang? Then there’s the voice-of-reason gang who haven’t done much but add more blame and negativity to the mix.

Can’t any of these “bastions of power” do what a 21-year-old corporal did? Why are they so afraid of their leaders? Fear of rejection? Fear they won’t be re-elected? Fear they’ll make a mistake and look bad? I think they are incapable of thinking for themselves.

For a politician to actually question his party’s stand on religion, race relations, gun control, abortion rights or OMG even the need to have taxes, takes a person who’s willing to risk crossing at least partway over to the enemy camp. One year Mitt Romney is for abortion; now he’s against it. Wouldn’t it be courageous for him to say, “Let people make up their own minds. I’m a Republican and I’m neutral.”?

Dakota Meyer deserved the Medal of Honor because he did something unique. He disobeyed a superior officer and risked his life.

Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. Buddha

If just a few republicans and democrats have the courage to risk their political futures and cease being so rigid, they could make a dramatic change. Cross the line! Do what we’re paying you to do. TAKE CARE OF US. I’ll vote for you. Thanks, Art Smukler MD

There was a very interesting article in the August issue of Psychiatric Times, “Compartment Syndrome in Psychiatry”, by James Knoll IV, MD.

I have spent a lot of time with a psychologist (in prison), which I had never done before in my life, in order to try to figure out how I could have done it… There are these mafia people who can kill people all day long, do terrible things, and then go home to their families… But the thing is that you can compartmentalize things in your life. Bernard Madoff

Bernard Madoff has apparently been examining his behavior with the help of a psychologist. His observation that one can compartmentalize, not only applies to him, but to many of us. I see it often in the office, and we all see it in the world around us:

In psychiatry, an individual can separate off certain thoughts and feelings, so that those thoughts do not encroach or disturb. This may either be a conscious or unconscious process (Freud). The process may be likened to invoking a mild state of dissociation in an attempt to confine and reduce anxiety (Gabbard).

Today, I saw a couple who sought advice on how to deal with their thirty-year-old son. He would curse at both his parents when he disagreed with them, storm out of restaurants after screaming that his mother was stupid, and then refuse to discuss anything. He has a history of alcoholism and numerous bar fights when he’s drunk. He denies that he has any alcohol problems and won’t seek help. At the same time, he writes long, loving letters to both his mother and father, telling them how wonderful they are and how he’s so lucky to have such giving, caring parents. He is a college graduate, has a good job, and supports himself.

Unlike the normal ambivalence that many feel towards their parents, this man has compartmentalized these feelings of love and hate. If he can keep his hateful feelings out of his conscious mind, he doesn’t have to feel guilty. If he can deny and compartmentalize his drinking, he doesn’t have to stop.

In some people, the compartment divider is like a hermetically sealed, case-hardened ship door. Sometimes the divider is flimsy and both sides of a person’s personality can shift back and forth. In therapy, it’s much better to have a patient with a flimsy door. The aberrant behavior is more accessible to examination and possible change. Unfortunately, patients who compartmentalize can be very difficult to treat. It may take a long time to forge a therapeutic relationship and chip away at the need to drink, have sex, overspend, or steal millions and millions from unsuspecting investors. Anything that feels good is hard to change…

Bernard Madoff did what he did because he could. His psychological compartment was so hermetically sealed that he could look friends right in the eye and get them to invest more money, up until the day he was caught. He seems like a man with only the vestige of a conscience (a sociopath). Most of us, even though we might like money and power, would feel too guilty. Unlike Abe Lincoln, we might not walk five miles to return a nickel, but we wouldn’t come close to being Bernard Madoff.

Thanks!