OUR GOVERNMENT IN ACTION. GIVE ME A BREAK! by Art Smukler MD, author & psychiatrist

I heard the great news that the US government was able to hack the Apple phone that the San Bernadino terrorists used.

Even as I felt a momentary sense of relief, another vague feeling began its slow ascent from my gut into my head. There was something wrong. Very wrong.

Why would anyone ever divulge this important fact? Now not only is Apple going to make it more difficult to get information from its devices, but every twisted, sadistic terrorist will look for a new way to communicate with his satanic, perverted, religious handler.

Granted, I spend a lot of time reading and writing all types of mystery/spy/intrigue/etc. novels and posts, I can’t be the only one who once again thinks our government needs a course in how-to-run-a-government.

Why else would a man like Donald Trump have made such a powerful connection with millions of Americans? Under normal circumstances there is no way to like this person except to plead for a comped hotel room. Why? He is joyfully challenging almost every “politically correct” concept that so many of us have for years knew were flawed.

His immature, impulsive, narcissistic style is beyond acceptable. The problem is that some of his concepts are very logical.

Secure our borders, CAREFULLY vet all Muslims with even a hint of too much zealous religiosity, make “allies” like Saudi Arabia pay their fair share, fix our trade deficit etc.

Truth be told, I could never vote for such a man.

I’m feeling the Bern.

But, I very much want our government to change!

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks

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DONALD TRUMP, A NAME-CALLING, ENTITLED PRE-TEEN, by Art Smukler, author & psychiatrist

The republican front-runner has clearly shown his true personality. He really thinks that disparaging a person’s appearance with a string of name calling,” big ears, a sweating baby, disgusting” is the way to the White House. Why would someone who graduated from a top college and have more money than all the candidates lumped together resort to such outlandish tactics?

Is he insecure? Is he a bully? Is he a person without depth who feels that if he postures and screams enough, he’ll get what he wants?

Yes. Yes. Yes.

He’s like so many entitled teenagers that I’ve treated over the years. Parents don’t set limits and patronize their little darlings until they actually believe they are entitled to anything they want.

Donald Trump can buy anything he wants except one thing.


There is no price placed on respecting someone. That has to be earned by the way he talks and the way he behaves.

Do any of us actually want our children to be like a man who calls other people names and disparages how they look?

We are all furious with how congress, another set of self-centered babies, has acted. But, do we punish them by rewarding an outspoken devaluing bully?

We hope our leaders are people we can emulate and have our children emulate.

Wait, maybe I’m wrong. Maybe we should teach our kids to call other children “sweaty, big-eared babies”.

Ah hah! That’s the answer! That’s the way to earn respect on the schoolyard.

The leader of the free world should be allowed to say anything he wants to say whenever he wants to say it. He doesn’t EVER have to exercise self-control and speak with respect and caring.

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks

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Recently, Bernie Sanders was asked whether he is religious. He said, “Yes, I am religious. When a child is hungry, it really bothers me. When a child can’t get the medication he needs because his parents don’t have insurance, it bothers me. When people are oppressed and discriminated against, it bothers me.”

Years ago, when I decided to become a physician, I was asked by a medical school interviewer why I wanted to become a doctor. I answered, “I want to help people.” The interviewer, a research chemist, then spent the next hour telling me how research chemists also help people. One month later, one of the most important, happiest experiences in my life (ranking up there with marriage and the births of my children) occurred. I was accepted to medical school.

Helping others is really what religion and being a good person is all about. It’s not about pandering to the religious right who HATE everyone who doesn’t agree with them and donates huge amounts of money to the candidates who can hate along with them.

Wouldn’t it be a relief to truly separate church and state, as our constitution espouses, and focus on making our country a place where we once again can spend our energy taking care of each other?

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DONALD TRUMP AND THE BATTERED WIFE SYNDROME, by Art Smukler MD, author & psychiatrist

Everyone has an opinion about why Donald Trump is still the Republicans’ #1 candidate.

His politically incorrect stance on immigration, foreign policy, trade, Muslims, and even on beating up people who disrupt his speeches, is a combination of appalling, intriguing, and flat out entertaining.

Many of his supporters don’t seem a bit bothered by his bullying style. He has stated that if fellow Republicans say anything that is not accurate or a lie it will be his pleasure to sue them. Geez. Maybe if I say the wrong thing he’ll sue me and the notoriety will make me famous enough to sell my books. On the other hand, I don’t know any psychiatrists with an eight billion dollar war chest. Maybe it’s better he doesn’t sue me…

But, back to, Why is this man who has been identified as grandiose, narcissistic, brilliant, a fool, and dozens of other colorful adjectives, still the front-runner and gaining every week in the polls?

There’s a concept in psychiatric thinking that seems to answer the question. It’s called Identification with the Aggressor. Another way to look at it is that the weak find solace and strength in the powerful.

Think about the battered wife who goes out of her way to hide her bruised body and protect the man who regularly harms her. Her perverse logic is that he’s really a good man who can’t help himself. The truth, if she ever has the strength to face her real feelings, is that she believes she desperately needs him. He is the strength that she doesn’t have and without him she believes she will surely fail. She identifies with the bully’s strength and can function better because his strength is now her strength.

So are The Donald’s supporters all like battered wives?


For years we have helplessly endured a pathetic, weak congress who have led our country into a dysfunctional mess. Then along comes a billionaire who couldn’t care less what he says or who he offends. It’s exciting and heady being able to tell the establishment to go to hell. It’s fun watching and listening to someone tell all these professional politicians that they are incompetent fools.

On the other hand, letting a bully loose in the world schoolyard is very dangerous. Just like the battered wife loses her identity as a human being, we risk losing who we are as a democracy and a country that thrives and encourages diversity.

So what’s the answer? Let our current politicos abuse us or let The Donald abuse us?

We don’t have to let anyone abuse us! We are not battered wives or husbands or need to be a battered electorate. Vote for the people you believe in. Forget what party they belong to! Focus on what they can do to solve our current dilemmas. We don’t have to identify with a man we don’t believe in just because he’s not afraid to say whatever thought passes through his mind.

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks.

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DONALD TRUMP, POTUS? IS IT POSSIBLE? WHY IS HE SO POPULAR? By Art Smukler, author & psychiatrist

Donald Trump doesn’t care who he offends. Whether you agree or disagree with his political statements, he’s making them without any consideration for the far right Republican Tea Party, the far left Democrats; or the holy grail military. Even the middle-of-the-roaders are standing around with their jaws agape.

If he really wants to become president, why is he making such dramatic politically incorrect statements?

Maybe it’s the fact that he has somewhere between 4 and 8 billion dollars (definitely enough to be considered F U money) and can say whatever he wants. Maybe he’s a narcissist and believes that whatever he thinks or says is verbal gold? Maybe he’s a political Howard Stern and just likes to shock people? Whatever his underlying motivation, his rhetoric is shockingly honest and unique.

He’s actually #1 in the Republican polls. Why is he so popular?

I think the american people are sick and tired of being afraid. Anti-immigration and devaluing of prisoner-of-war John McCain are statements that no one trying to get votes would publicly say, but there are many americans who obviously agree with Trump. Also, maybe it’s not his specific statements that are attracting so many supporters, but the fact that he is actually saying these things aloud rather than spouting all the veiled, politically correct statements that the other candidates bandy about. 

So what does it all mean?

What it means is very scary. He’s actually gaining traction. His outlandish style is attracting millions of followers.

Yet, this man, for all the wrong reasons, can change the political scene. What if all of the candidates took heed and stopped lying and manipulating, and really spoke their hearts? We could actually choose a candidate who had values that could help our country. As a country we need politics to change. We need honest people who aren’t afraid to state their beliefs, and not just a fearless self-serving billionaire. I wish a great leader would emerge. One that says, “You’re hired,” and takes pride in caring for others rather than pompously putting them down. Trump likes people who weren’t captured, yet he never served in the military. How would he tolerate years of abuse? Would he still have a grandiose, all-knowing attitude?

Our broken system needs fixing. And, even though I don’t like or agree with Donald Trump’s politics, I like his style of not being afraid to say what’s on his mind. That’s what the United States is all about.

Picture this very grim scene.

It’s a cold January in 2017 and Donald is standing in front of the White House being sworn in by our Chief Justice. The wind rustles the barren limbs of the trees, thousands of watchers pull up the collars of their heavy coats, and Mr. Trump’s comb-over shimmers over his face as he takes his presidential vow.

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Being first is a national pastime. The World Cup, the World Series, the Super Bowl, and now being the first celebrity to announce being transgender has taken society to a new and more inclusive level. 

To be different used to be a curse. The goal was to fit in and be part of the group. Even dating outside of one’s religion was considered “dangerous” and wrong. As a teenager, I remember the angst and confusion I experienced when I wanted to date a girl who wasn’t Jewish.

With a lot of anxiety I brought up the issue to my uncle, the goto adult when a troublesome issue plagued me. 

“So Uncle Bill, I kind of have a problem,” I said, during a slow time at the auto accessory store where I worked for him.

“What kind of problem?”

“I want to take out this girl. She’s really nice…, but she’s not Jewish.”

He nodded and said, “So what’s the problem?”

“She’s not Jewish.”

He nodded again and said, “So what’s the problem?”

I just stared at him, comprehension and relief overtaking me. “Thanks,” I said. “Thanks a lot”.

Validation and permission were and often are important. Uncle Bill’s reaction to a young Bruce Jenner asking what he should do about feeling like a girl, even though he is a boy, might have required a lot more thought and exploration. But, if the Uncle I so fondly remember stays true to my memory, he would have eventually hugged Bruce and supported his decision.

To support someone whose ideas and life seem not only “out of the box” but on a different planet, is not easy. It calls on us to ACCEPT what we instinctively feel to be wrong. To really hear and respect the right for an individual to be different from what “everyone” says he should be.

Often agreeing with “Everyone” is just another way of being safe and not taking the time and risk to evaluate what you really believe. Standing up against the majority always takes courage and the intellectual strength and curiosity to pose the question, “What do I really think?” And,”Do I have the courage to back up my idea with action?”

Bruce Jenner is a brave man. His courage will surely help other men and women have a better life. 

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks.
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EVEN WITHOUT THE “L” IT’S ME! Art Smukler, author & psychiatrist

April 16
Author Talk with Art Smuker
6 p.m.
Westwood Branch Library
1246 Glendon Ave., Los Angeles

Arthur Smukler, an award-winning novelist and Torrance-based psychiatrist, comes to the Westwood Branch Library to discuss his blog, “Inside the Mind of a Psychiatrist, Harnessing Obsessions to Write Books and Stories” and read from his mystery novel, “Skin Dance.” This event is free to the public and designed with adults and seniors in mind.


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ANGER, THE MAGIC ELIXIR THAT CURES DEPRESSION, by Art Smukler MD, author & psychiatrist

In the late eighties, managed care became an intrinsic part of our healthcare system.

The goal of saving patients money and still providing excellent care was a blatant lie. Psychiatrists were penalized for doing psychotherapy by receiving lower reimbursement fees. Only if they focused their efforts on psychopharmacological management of the patient’s treatment could they make a decent living. It even influenced the way psychiatrists were trained. Many programs reduced the emphasis on learning intensive psychotherapy, focusing mainly on diagnosis and the treatment of disorders like schizophrenia, major depressions and bipolar disorders. Learning how to tease out the clues that would allow a patient to change the way he was behaving and cure his depression and miserable life were no longer seen as an essential part of the training programs.

Because drugs like Prozac, Paxil, Zoloft, Celexa, Lexapro, Wellbutrin, Effexor, Cymbalta, Pristiq etc. were such effective blockbuster money makers, drug reps would not only detail psychiatrists, but also family practice doctors, internists, gynecologists and any doctor who might have the opportunity to treat issues like depression and anxiety. If a patient came in to see his doctor for depression, he might very well be given a prescription for Prozac and told to make an appointment for a follow-up in a month. Often, the thought of referring someone to a psychiatrist would only occur after a suicide attempt or overt psychotic break.

BUT, no-matter how often the power of psychopharmacology was touted, it became clear that managed care, big pharm, and the change in training programs couldn’t alter the fact that in many, many cases, MEDS ALONE DIDN’T HELP CURE DEPRESSION.

Those of us who understand and use psychotherapy (and meds) to treat depression, know that often the real drug (the magic elixir) that cures depression, is expressing unconscious underlying anger. These angry feelings often date back to early childhood, when the fear of confronting an angry parent was foolish. How can a child conquer a giant ten times his size who has ALL the power?

So, if anger is unconscious, how can you express what feels like it doesn’t exist?

If you are depressed and the medication you’ve been given isn’t really helping, don’t despair. Not all things that are new and wonderful are correct. Sometimes, it’s the simple, logical things that are the real answer. Find a skilled therapist who really knows what he’s doing. The magic of uncovering unconscious demons really works and can make you feel a lot better.

Do you agree? Disagree? Any personal experiences?

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks.

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THE TALIBAN HAS A PSYCHIATRIST? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? by Art Smukler, author & psychiatrist

In the late 1990s until 2001, when the Taliban controlled Afghanistan, Doctor Nader Alemi, the only Pashto speaking psychiatrist in the area, actually treated thousands of militant fighters. Since many of them were struggling with the psychological effects of war — anxiety, PTSD, depression, psychosis etc., they were desperate for help. Even some commanders sought his care.

Dr. Alemi disagreed with the Taliban’s ideology, but still treated them.

I used to treat the Taliban as human beings, same as I would treat my other patients…even though I knew they had caused all the problems in our society. Sometimes they would weep and I would comfort them.

Incredibly, while all this was going on, his wife Parvin Alemi ran an underground school for about a hundred girls. Under the Taliban, girls were not allowed to study.

This article by Tahir Qadiry in the BBC News intrigued me. I asked myself what I would have done under similar circumstances. Could I treat someone whose ideology I despised, a person who under other circumstances would have gladly killed me and my family — an ISIS fighter, a Nazi, a white supremacist, a racist?

Dr. Alemi is a remarkable man, a man who sees the human side of all people. But, is the Hippocratic Oath still in play with someone sworn to kill you and anyone who believes what you believe?

The Israelis treat Palestinians who are ill or wounded. Throughout history, captured soldiers are medically treated by their captors. Does compassion lead to mutual understanding and kindness?

Every day, I treat people with opinions and philosophies that differ from mine. It’s what I and other health professionals do.

So, would I treat someone whose ideology threatens the lives of all non-believers?

I don’t know… I really don’t.

What do you think?

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks.

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THE EVOLUTION OF GOD AND POPE FRANCIS, by Art Smukler, author & psychiatrist

For a moment, let’s assume that there is a God, a powerful force that created the world and all its inhabitants.

Strict Old Testament adherents will say that it took seven days for God to create the world.

Men of science will adhere to the Big Bang theory, an enormous explosion of energy that was the true beginning of the world.

Islamists will say that Mohammed was God’s prophet and what was written in the Koran is inviolate. What the Koran says is fact.

Pope Francis is a man of courage. Attempting to get Catholics to accept our changing world is an amazing step forward. To promote the idea that gays and divorced people are part of our society and should be treated with the same respect as non-gays and married people can change how millions of people treat others.

For me, it isn’t religion that’s important, it is doing everything possible to help our world be a better place. Strict religious zealots do exactly the opposite. ISIS will happily kill anyone who doesn’t agree with their strict brand of Islam. Right-wing religious fanatics in our country have killed physicians who perform abortions.

I applaud Pope Francis. I respect and admire men in power who stand up against the religious power structure that only adheres to dogma.

Psychiatry is a profession that honors the rights of people to have their own opinions and lives based on personal beliefs. It doesn’t honor the rights of people to kill or attack others who don’t agree with them. In the seventies, psychiatrists believed that homosexuality was a disease. Their belief was wrong and now we know better. WE CHANGED. Homosexuality is not considered a disease. It is an accepted sexual preference.

The pope is trying to get fellow Catholics to change. Maybe his thinking can influence millions of people who are not yet capable of thinking for themselves. Leaders have great power. Using that power to make our world a kinder, more loving place seems to me to be the essence of what religion should be all about.

Art Smukler is an award-winning psychiatrist and author of Chasing Backwards, a psychological murder mystery, Skin Dance, a mystery, and The Man with a Microphone in his Ear. All are available as paperbacks and eBooks.

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