He was elected because most of us weren’t naive enough to blame him. He inherited a catastrophe and then the party that created the catastrophe continued to affix blame rather than work to cure the problem.
Plus, why would most women vote for a man devoted to taking away their right to choose?
Plus, why would most Latinos vote for a man who wants them out of the country?
Plus, why would young people vote for a man and party that’s determined to keep the rich, rich and the poor struggling. Most of us started out as struggling students without a birthright of status or money.
Plus, we instinctively distrust a person who will say whatever it takes to get what he wants.
There are some psychological lessons to be learned:
Respect others’ values and work to give them the power to live those values.
Set aside some of your own narcissistic needs for the betterment of the country.
It’s reasonable to change your mind, but admit you’re changing it and do your best to explain why you changed it.
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Last week, I used 10 well-known celebrities in my post title. These ranged from Barack Obama to Mark Cuban to Steven Spielberg. My theory was that Google would connect anyone with an interest in these personalities to my blog site.
I imagined millions of potential viewers, with thousands of my books lining their shelves.
It didn’t happen — not even close. I’ve published 50 posts and have a total of 9000 hits, an average of 180 hits per post. For this experiment I received a grand total of…(drum roll) 190 hits. 8 new people decided to follow my blog and 7 people downloaded books. Fame and riches did not rain down upon me.
What does it all mean? To me, it means that post readers are interested in actual content — subjects that matter to them and people who have something to say. Just listing famous people doesn’t do it. Also, for someone to buy an unknown person’s book, there needs to be some sort of emotional connection or a recommendation from someone that they respect.
There’s no easy way to become known throughout the internet and throughout the world if you haven’t earned it. And really, that’s the way it should be.
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